RIPRIP Uncle.
Thanks for the tip off, whoever that came last night.
Dad didn't make it to go back ultimately, such a shame but I guessed all are predesignated.
Long Lost PostIt's been a while, was really very caught up with life, juggling between studies, the baby, my mom and the new house.
Just isn't easy to handle so much at a time, but am glad that at the very least things are making its progress in its way slowly. Renovation has started and hopefully things can get settled before aunt come in July, it would probably be the perfect time to pack and shift too instead of this happening during the term.
Mom.
Glad that finally something has been done. Can't imagine she has been living in pain for at least months and... Not complaining, but if the doctor at the polyclinic cared a little bit more, she doesn't has to go through so much until I have to go down and pushed him to do the referrals, pointing out to him the significant weight loss and stuff, asking him to refer to the correct department instead of somewhere that cannot help with her condition.
Somehow that also makes me realized that...
It is important to be someone who not just looking at the numbers but look at the patient, listening to their needs, and put down that ego. He first ignored her complains of pain and weight loss, made us go to the private, paid so much for blood investigations and then come back and do the same bloods again (while still refused to refer); and quietly made the referral the next day. I mean seriously? This is the kind of people that pushes up healthcare cost! If they repeat the test just for the sake of referring, then for what asked us to do screening outside? I seriously do not wish to become such practitioner honestly.
That means... I better stop complaining and work harder.
Treatment has started and I am glad that we are seeing some progress finally, even the specialist was asking my mom saying that she must have suffered a lot. This is going to be an expensive disease I was told, but as long as she gets better, I will just have to work harder I guess.
Uncle is not doing good, it is just matters of days I heard, but... Well advanced age, most importantly would be pain free... Let's just hope Pa managed to catch him one last time this coming week, and I really wish that he doesn't have to suffer much.
Results will be out next week, let's just keep my fingers crossed and hopefully I can make the mark that I do not need the "special term". Till then, ciao~
