I KnowI think I know.
But you think I care?
And...
How do you think I knew about that?
THINK.
Just Some Random Thoughts
Was talking to my friend about this today.
Sometimes, I do think that when major illness strike, it is actually God's will to make that person and the significant other to stop and reflect about their lives at that moment again. To me, I would think that it is a hint to prioritize life once again and get going, be it ultimately, whether the person get cured or pass on later.
I cannot deny the fact of how shock certain things can be when one first got to know, as like what we learnt in school, the Kubler Ross 5 stages of grieving, denial, anger, bargain, depression, acceptance; all these might not appeared in sequence and sometimes. not everyone will go through all 5 stages, but to look at it again, isn't that what a person do? As in getting themselves reorganized again?
Occasionally, I would share what I have read somewhere with my patients though I might not be a follower of Jesus Christ, but I truly believe in this.
"God won't put you through a test, if He thinks that you are not able to handle it."
For me, I will always try to find meanings to things that is going on. I guess that is a way of "coping strategies" as well. Life cannot never be a bed of roses, each and every little encounter make us what we are today. We would always take away something when we have been through certain events, that is what I would term as "life lessons". Some people choose to give up, while some, persevere and change their perceptions about life and ultimately, their beliefs and behaviour. I, have witness this a couple of times, on my patients, after their lives being hit by major illnesses.
I understand that not everyone will share my perception, you might opposed what I have just written and I accept the differences.
Though...
I can't help but to wonder...
Why do some people just don't see the hint and continue to be nasty?
And...
Sometimes, not that I am out to curse people, but I do realized that those who are trying to find fault with everything, usually suffered the most, somehow, all the complications will come, things will go wrong without any explanation. May be because of the scrutinizing nature that leads them to picking out all the flaws? Yet how to explain about the complications like wound breakdown, more susceptible to bacteria infection? May be from the stress originate from scrutinizing as we all know that stress do have a negative effect on health.
*Shrug*
Getting complicated.
Anyway, too complicated for my "simple mind" to process for now, may be I should go back and discuss this with the sophisticated one. =p.
Death? I Didn't PLANNED This"Passed away? But I didn't plan this!"
I heard a visitor said to the doctor one day and was a little puzzled.
Seriously, who can plan death?
Who can ever predict death at exactly which date and what time?
Believe me, there was just this little moment of temptation to challenge this question to the one who passed that comment.
If death can be planned, what would you "PLAN"?
When would you plan it?
And... If death really can be planned...
Life...
Might not be as beautiful as it is supposed to be.
