Wednesday, October 22, 2014
這年頭，自覺正常的瘋子特別多...
I was on my way home on a bus.
As I was alighting and went to the lower deck, saw this girl that is at least in primary school was hanging herself on the rings for people to hold lifting herself up, in fact, 2 girls; with their mother and another lady who was at the side cheering for what they have done and "correcting" their "techniques", as well as asking one of the older girl to lift her legs up higher so that she can hang herself better.
I frowned at them and shook my head.
Honestly.
I am sorry to say but....
WHAT KIND OF A MOTHER IS SHE???
Ever think of what if so happened that the girls slipped and it so happened that the bus did an emergency brake???
Call me mean for all I care, but seriously, I hope that really happened.
If that is what it takes for people to learn safety.
And I will gladly be the witness that this was caused by the mother's negligence.
There are places to do things, proper places. If they want to play like that, CAN, jolly well go to the playground to do this!
What if they fell and happened to roll and there is an old lady on the bus that they banged into, and that old lady hit somewhere and suffered a brain damaged in the end?
I am not joking, what constitute in an accident is all the coincidences.
Why?
Why are people who are so ignorant, immature and self centered become a mother?
It would be worse if she is not the girls' mother, then I sincerely wish her good luck that nothing happened to the kids when she return the custody to their parents.
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If you think what you have seen can outwit the years of hard work of the physicians, by all means, take her home and do your own adjustment with the treatment.
Don't one side said you do not want to bring her home while on the other hand started pointing fingers there wanting things to be done in your way.
Seriously, those years of training, slogging and mugging with the constant exams are not meant for nothing, people do not become a senior consultant just by sitting there over the years.
*Frown*
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這年頭，自覺正常的瘋子特別多...
May be I am also one of that.
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [8:36 PM]
Sunday, October 19, 2014
Dear FriendsDear friends,
If I have reached the age of 45 and still walking out to public with;
- 2 plait hair.
- Super huge act cute loud colour ribbon/hair band
- Mini skirt/Hot pants
- Overly lace everywhere/translucent dresses in shocking colour (bright red, shocking pink, purple, strong sky blue)
- Trying to post for a picture with THAT kind of innocent look
I URGE YOU, please PLEASE P-L-E-A-S-E.....
S•T•O•P M•E.
AT ALL COST.
I will be very grateful to you in the after future.
*Disclaimer: this message is not targeted to anyone, it is not served as a purpose to mock anybody but more like a request for help from my truthful and lovely FRIENDS and FAMILY members. Anyone who chanced upon this and found similarities with yourself please do not feel offended, I am, never referring to you, just the aftermath of some shocking sight I saw just not very long ago.
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [7:44 PM]
Friday, October 17, 2014
轉載:《你只負責好好做人，上天自有安排》
一個旅行者，在一條大河旁看到了一個婆婆，正在為渡水而發愁。
已經精疲力竭的他，用盡渾身的氣力，幫婆婆渡過了河，結果，過河之後，婆婆什麼也没說，就匆匆走了 。
旅行者很懊悔。他覺得，似乎很不值得耗盡氣力去幫助婆婆，因為她連“謝謝”兩個字都没有。 哪知道，幾小時後，就在他累得寸步難行的時候，一個年輕人追上了他。
年輕人說，謝謝你幫了我的祖母，祖母嘱咐我帶些東西來，說你用得着。說完，年輕拿出了乾糧，並把胯下的馬也送给了他。
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不必急着要生活給予你所有的答案，有時候，你要拿出耐心等等。即便你向空谷喊話，也要等一會兒，才會聽見那綿長的回音。
也就是說，生活總會給你答案，但不會馬上把一切都告訴你。這才有滋味，才會等到滋味。
如果哪一天，你遭遇了人生的冷風凍雨，你的心已經不堪承受，那麼，也請你等一等，
要知，這棵巨樹正在生活的背風處為為你營造出一種春天的氣象，並一點一點靠近你。只要你努力了。
回報不一定在付出後立即出現。只要你肯等一等，生活的美好，總在你不經意的時候，盛裝蒞臨。
一切都是最好的安排
當你身處逆境，感到諸事不順 ， 愛情 、工作 、事業 、理想都成泡影時，心生絕朢之念，不妨換個角度看這個問題，告訴自己：一切都是最好的安排，福禍相依，安知未來不會發生驚喜的改變呢？
還有這樣一個故事：
有個國王喜歡打獵，以及與宰相微服私訪 。宰相最常掛在嘴邊的一句話就是「一切都是最好的安排」。
一天，國王到森林打獵，一箭射倒一隻花豹。國王下馬檢視花豹。誰想到，花豹使出最後的力氣，撲向國王，將國王的小指咬掉一截。
國王叫宰相來飲酒解愁，誰知宰相卻微笑著說：「大王啊，想開一點，一切都是最好的安排！」
國王聽了很憤怒，「如果寡人把你關進監獄，這也是最好的安排？」
宰相微笑說：「如果是這樣，我也深信這是最好的安排。」國王大怒，派人將宰相押入監獄。
一個月後，國王養好傷，獨自出遊。他來到一處偏遠的山林，忽然從山上沖下一隊土著人，把他五花大綁，帶回部落！山上的原始部落每逢月圓之日就會下山尋找祭祀滿月女神的犧牲品，土著人準備將國王燒死。
正當國王絕望之時，祭司忽然大驚失色，他發現國王的小指頭少了小半截，是個並不完美的祭品，收到這樣的祭品滿月女神會發怒，於是土著人將國王放了。
國王大喜若狂，回宮後叫人釋放宰相，擺酒宴請，國王向宰相敬酒說：「你說的真是一點也不錯，果然，一切都是最好的安排！如果不是被花豹咬一口，今天連命都沒了。」
國王忽然想到什麼，問宰相：「可是你無緣無故在監獄裡蹲了一個多月，這又怎麼說呢？」
宰相慢條斯理喝下一口酒，才說：「如果我不是在監獄裡，那麼陪伴您微服私巡的人一定是我，當土著人發現國王您不適合祭祀，那豈不是就輪到我了？」
國王忍不住哈哈大笑，說：「果然沒錯，一切都是最好的安排！」
這個故事在告訴我們一個道理：當我們遇到不如意的事，這一切也肯定是一種最好的安排！不要懊惱，不要沮喪，更不要只看在一時。把眼光放遠，把人生視野加大，不要自怨自艾，更不要怨天尤人，永遠樂觀、奮鬥，相信天無絕人之路。
「一切都是最好的安排」，這是心理催眠師最喜歡講的一個故事，因為在他們看來，人的潛意識是十分強大的，而且是沒有判斷能力的，只要你輸入正確的指令和程序，它就會聽從和工作。催眠就是影響潛意識、重塑潛意識最快速的方法。
而這個故事所起到的積極正面的暗示作用，事實證明是十分強大的，很多人聽完這個故事，都會發生生命的改變，而且還用之後的人生繼續證明這句話。
其實，只要我們仔細回想生活中的每件事，也都可以對自己說這句話「一切都是最好的安排」。當你身邊有人發出求救信號，比如情緒低落、大發脾氣，或行為異常，那就給他講講這個故事，心理疏導遠比一些預防舉措更加有效。
所以，一切都是最好的安排，感恩生命中所遭遇的一切。
好好做人，上天自有安排！
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [11:10 PM]
Thursday, October 16, 2014
Stress~I am...
A little stress over what I am going to deal with.
Need more strength and faith to tide over.
And...
I pray.
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「我幾乎從來不生氣，因為我認為沒必要，
有問題就去解決，不要讓別人的錯誤影響自己。
這是我大多時候感到快樂的秘訣。
但是，我不生氣，不代表我沒脾氣。
我不計較，不代表我脾氣好。
如果你非要觸摸我的底線，我可以告訴你，我並非善良。」—劉青雲。
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [10:47 PM]
Monday, October 13, 2014
Angsty
*Drained*
I have to keep talking in my mind to be able to calm down.
I don't get it.
If by throwing plates, sweeping everything on the floor and shouting and people have to give in to you, ain't they encouraging this behaviour?
Really think that you are so adorable and lovable?
Despise that act of yours, totally.
So...
Can I do the same so that I do not need to face you as well?
FML?
No.
Why should I?
FYL it should be.
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [7:33 PM]
Saturday, October 11, 2014
What the.....What an eventful week.
Bang table.
Throw plate.
What's next?
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [11:08 PM]
Tuesday, October 07, 2014
塗鴉十萬個為甚麼，卻沒有一個答案。
或許在祂的世界裡，答案不是一個必然，也不是絕對。
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人啊，說話前還是要先點掂掂自己的斤兩才好，
血淋淋的例子活生生的在眼前上演。
＊吃花生＊
抱歉目前我還是祇想安安分分地當一個吃花生的觀眾。
不是冷漠，不是冷血，純粹覺得沒必要。
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [4:48 PM]
