Sunday, February 26, 2006
My Johari Nohari Window
Sounds familiar? Yup, ya right, this is the one we learnt in school, think it's Karen's class and now here's for the bigger group of data.
Johari window
A Johari window is a metaphorical tool intended to help people better understand their interpersonal communication and relationships. It is used primarily in self-help groups and corporate settings as a heuristic exercise. Terms selected only by the participant, but not by any of their peers, are placed into the Façade quadrant, representing information about the participant of which their peers are unaware. It is then up to the participant whether or not to disclose this information.
Terms that are not selected by the participant but only by their peers are placed into the Blind Spot quadrant. These represent information of which the participant is not aware, but others are, and they can decide whether and how to inform the individual about these "blind spots".
Terms which were not selected by either the participant or their peers remain in the Unknown quadrant, representing the participant's behaviors or motives which were not recognized by anyone participating. This may be because they do not apply, or because there is collective ignorance of the existence of that trait.
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My Nohari Window
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Nohari variantA Nohari window is the inversion of the Johari window, and is a collection of negative personality traits instead of positive. This tool allows others to see which bad qualities that others perceive in them, and which ones are merely their imagination. The Nohari window is a tool for self-improvement.
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [12:42 AM]
Friday, February 24, 2006
WhateverI don't care who you are, just better don't let me find out.
If you want to go chatroom that is your problem, you wanna give away your phone number just do so BUT PLEASE, don't do such crap like giving my phone number away, that is extremely childish and I don't see you gain anything. Mind you, I have a 1,000 free SMS-es to spare each month plus there is Caller-ID, slient mode as well as call divert function nowadays. In short, we don't live in stone age, so please GROW UP.
Also, by doing so you have already betrayed my trust to you, this is BETRAYAL which is a taboo for me, so may be you would like to pack and get out of my sight, forever.
I mean it.
I am not angry, I am a lil' pissed, and disappointed, whoever.
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [10:45 PM]
Tuesday, February 21, 2006
Traffic Police TestYeah!
I passed~ I passed~~ I have passed!!!
I pass my driving with 10 points!
What's more it's a one time pass for everything! Basic, advance and practical!
When I got my route I was almost like "oh boy" because from the map I know I am gonna go through this place with loads of cars parking by the side of the road and it's a one lane for both sides traffic which I think if I really get there, I would have just failed! Phew~
God bless, lucky.
What's more am I asking for?
Anyone wanna learn driving from my instructor?
=)
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [11:50 PM]
Monday, February 13, 2006
RecollectionsRecollections
Running into you today after 10 years, those days seems to be gone forever.
Mature and distant, there are a thousand of words in the silence.
Time flew back to that summer, you were smiling from ear to ear at the terminal
patting my head, asking "How are you?"
Our youths was filled by that line and we can hear no one else
Time seems to have frozen in your sight
It was a rainy day, we were dashing across the streets
Hands held tight, we would do everything for love
Your voice I could still remember, the promise that you gave
You give a kiss on my cheeks, all these are the happiest moments that I kept deep in my mind
As days goes by, we begin to have our own social circle. How long have we not been walking side by side?
We were so caught up in our own life that we have forgotten our dream when we were young.
I would really want to return to that summer, when you were smiling at me outside the classroom,
Patting my head, telling me "Don't cry."
Failing once is not the end of the world, there is still a long way to go in life,
we are going to see the world together.
It was a sunny day without any clouds in the sky, the track of clouds left by the plane,
it describe all my missing towards you as well as writing an epilogue to the whole story.
Your youth I could still remember, engraved at the most precious moment,
which in my life has never say goodbye nor lost in sight
The night before I ran into you, I dreamt of our past, everything about our past.
You were going to have a touch of how crude life could be at times.
It was a sunny day without any clouds in the sky, the track of clouds left by the plane,
it describe all my missing towards you as well as writing an epilogue to the whole story.
Your youth I could still remember, engraved at the most precious moment,
which in my life has never say goodbye nor lost in sight
我還記得
作曲:易桀齊/伍冠諺 主唱:梁靜茹 填詞:黃婷
十年後的今天遇見你 年少輕狂已遠去
成熟穩重也保持距離 沉默裡千言萬語
時光回到那年夏天 公車站前你笑容滿面
拍拍我的頭 說妳好嗎
一句問候填滿青春 別人的話都聽不見
歲月凝結在你的視線
我還記得那年傾盆大雨 狼狽奔跑穿越幾條街
握緊的雙手 為愛的不顧一切
我還記得那年你的聲音 耳邊迴盪那一句誓言
你吻我的臉 都是我心中收藏一生的快樂
漸漸我們都有新朋友 多久不再並肩走
忙忙碌碌看人生匆匆 忘記了年輕的夢
好想回到那年夏天 教室門前你笑容滿面
拍拍我的頭 說妳別哭
考壞一次不是末日 未來還有很長的路
我們要一起去看世界
我還記得那年晴空萬里 那一道飛機雲的弧線
蜿蜒著思念 寫下故事的總結
我還記得那年你的年輕 刻在從前最美的時間
在我生命裡 你不曾告別 不曾走遠
與你重逢前一個夜晚 往事在夢中上演
終要去體驗 真實人生的殘缺
我還記得那年晴空萬里 那一道飛機雲的弧線
蜿蜒著思念 寫下故事的總結
我還記得那年你的年輕 刻在從前最美的時間
在我生命裡 你不曾告別 不曾走遠
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [9:32 PM]
Tuesday, February 07, 2006
Medicine IssueSian.
I have no idea what all these people are thinking about? Are they playing a plank on me?
Imagine, I saw the doctor about a month ago and she refuse to write me a referral and cut my medicine (Off my propanol and cut my carbimazole by 5mg) and today I saw this other doctor who wrote me the referral WITHOUT ME EVEN ASKING and she put me back on all my medicine again!
What the.....
What are they trying to do? They think it's funny?
As the "victim", I seriously don't think so.
Sickening.
Anyway, today the doctor agrees on that that doctor should NOT have cut my dosage without even doing a test, true indeed! I should have given that doctor a good piece of my mind the other time. Haiz, can't blame, my reaction too slow.
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [4:40 AM]
Wednesday, February 01, 2006
Wild Cat ChaseSuper malu.
Super Diu lian.
Super embarassing.
WA LAU!
I just ganna chased by a wild cat till the extent that I actually have to run in the quiet street in order to shake it off, worst of all, this process is witnessed by 1 taxi uncle and a driver!
SHAKS! (="=)
SOOOOOO embarassing!
I was walking in the lane towards home after visiting my primary school friends, my phone rang and since it was already 2359hrs, I did not pick up the phone as it will be charged, so I made a call back and this is when the cat started tailing me. I guess my new boots looks to "comfee" that it thought it's another cat, it is trying to get near when I stopped to pick up my phone. Imagine shouting "NO!" in the middle of the night to a cat, it is already a bit off to talk to a cat in English. Never mind. It is not afraid of me making sounds like "Grrrrrr...." nor acted like I am gonna kick her out of my road with my boots, it just chased after me after I make a detour just to avoid it from coming near my boots *I don't want it to stuck with cat's fur!!!! I don't want to see bugs on my boots!!!!!!!! No! NO!! NOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!* Chase as in really running behind me, keep following me till when I finally hang up the phone, I saw no one and I decided to take off. I am NOT afraid of cats, but the way it harassed me is kinda... annoying. So I ran like a crazy woman and it chased so I ran even faster, more crazy and further.
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Managed to shook it off of course and there comes the cat's moaning sound *OMG! Do my boots or me look like a cat!? You know the way it moan sounded like an "invitation".... Ewwwwwwwww!!!!!!* (= =i)
And then guess what? This whole process of wild cat chase was witness by this car who pulled over by the road side and the driver keep looking at my direction. *Shy* At first I thought it is stopping to wait for a friend until I realised that it is following me, when I walked slightly further, the car will move and pulled over by the side of the road all the way till I am home at my block and upstairs I still saw it waiting downstairs.
The other person was a cab driver who actually wind down the window and asked me, "Miss, you ok?"
"Yeah." I answered.
"Got chased by cat is it?" The driver ask again.
"Yeah."
"You sure you are ok? You wanna hop in?" He asked.
"Err.. No need, my house is near." and I try to point out the block.
After a while I realised that he made a U-turn and wind down the window asking again, "Com'on miss, I give you a lift!"
"Err.. No need, my house is just down the corner." Rejected his kindness.
"Really, quite far le!" He is still trying to convince me.
"Huh? No la, just next to this block." I was wondering where he is pointing to, should I tell him that I am not afraid of cats? I just scared that my boots will be full of cat's fur and may be some bugs that I cannot wear this pair of boots again.
And this is the second car that chaperone me home.
WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA LAAAAAAAOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!
This is damn malu+paisei+embarassing!
Where is the hole that I need to hide myself?????
WAAAAAAAAAAAA *Screaming in shame*
Please just let me die in peace.
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.beaNie 豆豆 again at [1:48 AM]
