Other people heard the story feels injustice for the mother. Why is the son treating the mother like a chamber maid? The mother however did not say a word and continue her life as such.
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A girl who had her groom who came from another country ran away just a day before the marriage. When found, he spit tonnes of nasty words to her, telling her how much he detested to be in this country. When the girl calmly accepted the fact and willing to send this man back home by getting the ticket for the first flight on the following day according to the country's law, she was railed at by the man's family member that she did not give him the chance to look for a job in this country which is definitely a crime by doing so. The girl hold on to her decision, until the moment the man were at the boarding gate being casted out of the country, he broke down and begged the girl to let him stay and he will marry her. The girl forgiven him for leaving the mess for her, married him on the next available date.
Friends of the girl felt that she should not have gotten together with this man given the story that was told, but the girl insisted and said that she will try her best to "make things work".
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A girl was being hit by her boyfriend, just because he felt like it. He pulled her hair and hit her at the tummy.
It wasn't the first time and the girl decided for breakup. The boy, of course beg for forgiveness, and the girl is contemplating even though she knows that she could just walk out as there is no string attached.
Friends of the girl wanted her to consider because if things like that she could tolerate for now, how about her children in future? And by forgiven once again will that guarantee it won't happened like every other time he promised?
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A girl was always told that she should not keep disturbing her friends because it can become a pain and people would feel burdensome and stressful to be with her, especially when the other party is attached. She dare not call on her friends, no matter how close, how much she missed them, or how much she needed to talk to someone about her woes.
Her best friend came to know about it, was deeply upset by the distant drawn by the girl and finally, a day they trashed out everything and the best friend told the girl that it was wrong of her doing that and she didn't find her bothersome at all. There are comments by other mutual friends saying that the girl is too clingy and the friendship is abnormal. But the best friend knew her friend well enough that it is not what others have presumed, choose to trust her friend that what they had, is just plantonic close friends, like sisters.
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That many stories.
I realised that...
Any form of relationship, be it kinship, friendship, or lovers; it is always 一個願打，一個願捱. It is never a one person thing and not for others to comment and judge what kind of relationship one is experiencing and sharing. So long as both parties are happy and willing, the "mute mode" can be switched on.
^^.
謝謝願意跟我捱的人。
謝謝你。
