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Sunday, February 23, 2014

Friends

My friend "scolded" me yesterday.
It started with a post of a picture by me and somehow this facebook went to give her a notification and she was wondering why. I was guessing that it could be a "grouping" issue since I have put some of my dearer friends in a group that I will get their updates more regularly than others, so in turn facebook might have self decided that this group of people will be interested about my updates as well.
So I texted her and was trying to "irritate" her in a way by telling her that I will remove her from the group so as to see if she would still get notifications like that. It boils down to the fact that I also do not want them to be notified so frequently in fear of disturbing them, you know, sometimes it can get kinda irritating if you are constantly prompt for things that.. Well, may be, not so interested.
She thinks that I am thinking too much and if she is really my close friend, she would be hurt by my thoughts like this. She did not mind it at all, because... Friendship should include acceptance of whoever the person is, their true self, be it good or bad.
Ok.
May be it is not only about giving in and being thoughtful, putting them before your own self.
Being friends...
I thought, giving and not to bring a burden to another, is important (No?).
And to think back about lately...
I hope I didn't hurt anyone I love.
*Fingers crossed*.


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