A little story that I once read about.
A man once consulted the wise man, "What if someone who swear at me, with the worst vulgarities that one could possibly know of?"
The wise asked the man, "What would you do if I were to reject a gift from you?"
The man replied almost immediately, "I would of course take it back!"
The wise then asked, "So who has the ownership of this present then?"
The man thought for a while, and replied, "I think I would since you have rejected it."
The wise then said, "When someone swear or cursed you, this is similar to a gift for you. If you choose to reject/ignore it, who would you think that the curses are being directed at?"
Anyway.
End of the day story is, when someone is rude or trying to throw temper at you, there is no need to get upset or mad at the person, the point is, I am not even acknowledge the ownership of the anger...
Curse all you want, as if I care, because I am rejecting this "gift" from you, thank you.
