Well, somehow...
We are all individuals, indeed it's true that we do not live in our own world, we need each others at times, but I think there is a line somewhere that each of us should not cross because once you have crossed that line, the other party may not be able to bear with that and your request would become a bother to the particular person. I guess that is why sometimes people find that you cannot get along with people, we call this overly dependent. I think the only people who will never find you troublesome is only your family members, blood-bond family, remember, not even your partner. When you are too dependent on others, you would actually suffocate them without knowing. Each of us live as an individual, not attached to each other which is why we need to give space to people, a space for them to breathe, this is the line I am referring to.
I don't know am I too dependent on others, I hope I am not because I do not wish to suffocate the people that I love. In case you do not realise, too much love could drown another person, push him or her away from you, be it family, friends, or even your spouse.
So... question, each of us have a different standard, WHERE TO DRAW THE LINE?
We are all individuals, indeed it's true that we do not live in our own world, we need each others at times, but I think there is a line somewhere that each of us should not cross because once you have crossed that line, the other party may not be able to bear with that and your request would become a bother to the particular person. I guess that is why sometimes people find that you cannot get along with people, we call this overly dependent. I think the only people who will never find you troublesome is only your family members, blood-bond family, remember, not even your partner. When you are too dependent on others, you would actually suffocate them without knowing. Each of us live as an individual, not attached to each other which is why we need to give space to people, a space for them to breathe, this is the line I am referring to.
I don't know am I too dependent on others, I hope I am not because I do not wish to suffocate the people that I love. In case you do not realise, too much love could drown another person, push him or her away from you, be it family, friends, or even your spouse.
So... question, each of us have a different standard, WHERE TO DRAW THE LINE?
